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  • Question: So get a load of this, I got into an argument with somebody about whether cisphobia was real or not, she kept denying that it exists, but get this, her URL was "cishaming" and half of her posts were about wishing all cis people died - wolfmanastn
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    notsoaverageday:

    Urg, Okay so I get it that we have no right to try and say that cis-shaming is even like a real problem but you cannot deny its existence or that in some groups it is just as harmful as homophobia. It’s still there, and its still harmful just like homophobia is. That’s what bugs me more than anything is when in the name of oppression people just go all out and claim that anything they do to a certain group of people is okay because they are the oppressed and don’t have to be accountable for any actions or words that may have harmed anyone they deem ‘the oppressors’ whether or not its actually valid. You can tell people they BENEFIT from a system, for example, white privileged, because even though we didn’t choose to be our skin tone we do greatly benefit from white privileged. However, to call anyone who is white or tell anyone who is white that they have no right to be involved in racism or that they are oppressing people of color just by existing is just as harmful as if you told people of color the same thing. 

    Now we can’t use this as some sort of counter argument. Its absolutely not. This is by no means a reason to tell someone that the oppression or bigotry they face has no merit because ‘Hey we are oppressed too!’. No, we are not oppressed, we just don’t want to be accused of things that we had no part in, we just need them to know that you just need to be careful of who and what you accuse a whole group of people of. They aren’t there to cater to our hurt feelings or nurse our pride, but they also don’t have to continually stab us in the back when a lot of us are trying to be more educated about our privileged and spread awareness to others about it so you can try to help them change the system.

    (this is really rough and uneducated and really quickly written so pls don’t slaughter me it was a fast answer and by no means should you take this response as scripture or my final verdict on these matters)

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  • Question: Hey can I post that ask you sent me, I had a fairly good answer and wanted to make it public but if you don't feel comfortable thats fine too! No worries if you don't want me too I just wanted to make sure first before I sent it to you or publicly. - notsoaverageday
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    You can post it :)

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gaysweater:

I just want a girlfriend who’s okay with eating pizza in just our underwear and then playing Mario Kart together and taking naps

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SET ME FREE

TRUST ME AND WE WILL ESCAPE FROM THE CITY

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She’s been so pretty lately wtf

The word you wanted was “Always”, dumb ass. as in She’s Always been pretty.

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sTEPHEN COLBERT

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albus—tumbledore:

32, 613 people understand this. Please explain

What?

nobody say a word

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itsdeepforhappypeople:

Awwwwwww cutie

that awkward moment when deadpool is a better person than you because you would have just stole the pizza and not given a fuck

dead pool isn’t really a villian like, most of his comics  are just being like a slightly mentally challenged selfish 5 year old with an incredibly dirty mind who hits on spiderman all the time and is aware at all times of the forth wall. oh and it is literally impossible to kill him so he gets a bit reckless at times

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I think I broke Harry Potter

karlosmadera:

So it’s 3AM and It’s just occurred to me that the most telling scene in the entire Harry Potter franchise is the scene following the announcement of the participants of the Triwizard tournament.

When Harry’s name is pulled out of the cup, literally one of the first things he…

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